Lust in Translation

Lust in Translation

Deep Dives

Scheduling Sex Works. Here’s Why It Doesn’t For You.
The one thing couples forget.
 • Natassia Miller
You Initiate Sex the Way You Want to Be Initiated. That's the Problem.
Research on the receiving end of desire shows how to speak your partner's language.
 • Natassia Miller
When You Want Sex, What Do You Actually Want?
Couples argue about frequency. The real conversation is underneath it.
 • Natassia Miller
It's Hard to Desire Someone Who Chooses to Be Miserable
What The Invite gets right about how desire dies in a marriage.
 • Natassia Miller
In the Billionaires' Vagina Club, Desire Must Be Efficient
Stop telling women sex is like going to the gym
 • Natassia Miller
Women sexologists you should know: Shere Hite
The price of telling the truth about pleasure.
 • Natassia Miller
How to build the erotic life you want in 2026
A goal-setting guide that sticks.
 • Natassia Miller
Affairs, Desire, and Choosing Herself: A Conversation with Rebecca Woolf
On longing, risk, and the kind of intimacy worth having.
 • Natassia Miller
When What’s Onscreen Turns You Off
Unrealistic expectations, and one platform rewriting the plot.
 • Natassia Miller
Midlife Erotic Awakening with Juliette LaMontagne
How she rewrote the script—and rebuilt her marriage.
 • Natassia Miller and Juliette LaMontagne
Marriage and Desire in the Ozempic Era
How weight loss drugs are reshaping intimacy and connection.
 • Natassia Miller
Boredom isn't ruining your sex life. Rigidity is.
Lessons from The Erotic Upgrade.
 • Natassia Miller
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