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Affairs, Desire, and Choosing Herself: A Conversation with Rebecca Woolf
On longing, risk, and the kind of intimacy worth having.
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When What’s Onscreen Turns You Off
Unrealistic expectations, and one platform rewriting the plot.
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Beyond "Low Desire": What Women Really Need
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The Spicy Holiday Gift Guide
All of the pleasure, none of the bore.
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Midlife Erotic Awakening with Juliette LaMontagne
How she rewrote the script—and rebuilt her marriage.
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October 2025
Marriage and Desire in the Ozempic Era
How weight loss drugs are reshaping intimacy and connection.
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My Literary Erotica Hit List
Desire, power, and everything in between
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September 2025
Boredom isn't ruining your sex life. Rigidity is.
Lessons from The Erotic Upgrade.
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August 2025
The Hormone Therapy Myth (What Science Actually Says)
On navigating perimenopause and menopause symptoms.
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Better Sex Through Mindfulness: Julie’s Story
Why we resist pleasure, even when we want it.
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More Vacation Sex, Please.
How to bring that energy home.
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July 2025
The Burden of Maintenance Sex
Why women struggle and what you can do about it.
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