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Abigail A Mlinar Burns's avatar

I'm a Spy in the House of Love gal, myself. Fun list. I'm most into true stories lately.

Natassia Miller's avatar

Ohh any true story books you recommend?

Abigail A Mlinar Burns's avatar

I’ve been on an historic erotic epistolary kick. James Joyce and Nora Barnacle. Vita Sackville-West and Virginia Woolf. The Nin - Miller ones are golden too, of course.

AURORE erotica's avatar

The Lover is one of my all time favorites—and agree that Updike can do surprisingly sexy things. Americanah by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie is also super hot with a riveting narrative.

Natassia Miller's avatar

Adding Americanah to my reading list!

Madeline's avatar

Bookmarked! Thank you. But what about the constant stream of new releases of literary erotica like the ones featured on BookTok?! There's a glorious avalanche of fresh smut out there! My partner typically is way more open to erotica in the context of a comedy than anything one could describe as "philosophical" and I love your POV

Natassia Miller's avatar

Hi Madeline! I have not yet read the new smuts out there but they’re on my list and when I do I surely will publish another newsletter on it. Finding your smut genre and style is so important so I am all for reading anything that entices you :)

Jennifer Shaw's avatar

Thank you! I loved the film version of The Lover and now want to read the book. I want to read several of these!

Natassia Miller's avatar

So happy this inspires you!

Rebekah Vesper's avatar

You had me at Anaïs Nin. 😍 Love Delta of Venus. I have both that one and Little Birds. Thanks for the great post!

Natassia Miller's avatar

Little Birds is also a loved one! And thank you!

V.Thomas's avatar

Please don't judge - but which of these is the most accessible? Easiest to read, so to speak. I like plain straight forward writing. VT x

Sam Spencer's avatar

Jim Salter is exceptional, a master and my favorite author whether its sex or food or both.

SJStone's avatar

I haven't read any of these, but your descriptions leave me with a different sort of TBR now. As for my own reading, I feel I lean a bit more on the popular side of the house. I question whether Lolita is erotica, but I read it specifically to see how an author deals with an unsettling topic, and like the other novels I will mention, it sits happily in my bookcase now because it was definitely worth the read.

That said, my favorite work of erotica is a toss-up, really. I'm torn between Anne Rice's Sleeping Beauty series, which probably sparked my interest in writing erotica, and Anne Rice's Exit to Eden, which is likely more appropriately categorized as erotic romance. I'm not sure if there's a difference.

Either way, Beauty's journey is epic, and it's been my inspiration to write not just erotica, but erotic fantasy, erotic sci-fi, erotic mystery and erotic horror. I really like the idea of telling a deeper story and blending elements of other genres into the tale. I loved Exit to Eden simply because I like the romance between Lisa and Elliott.

In my The Fictional: After Dark Substack, I'm aiming for a diverse range of stories and hoping they do the genre justice.

Starling Deerborn's avatar

There is something delicious about naming desire without apology.

I appreciate that this list treats erotica not as spectacle but as inquiry. Power, shame, hunger, imagination. These books are not simply about bodies touching. They are about what is revealed when we let ourselves want.

It is also refreshing to see pleasure framed as literacy rather than indulgence. The brain is the largest sexual organ, yes, but it is also the most policed. Women have long been permitted to endure sex on the page. Enjoying it has been another matter entirely.

What I love most here is the insistence that erotic writing can be philosophical without losing heat. That longing can be art. That kink can be a form of truth-telling.

Desire is not trivial. It is diagnostic. It shows us where we feel powerful, where we feel small, where we feel alive.

And any bookshelf that acknowledges that is worth lingering over.

Dale Evans's avatar

Hey thx for the Reading Checklist. You are so Cool.

Juliette Williams's avatar

Great list! A Sport and Pastime is one of my favourites. 🔥

J. Leibowitz Smut's avatar

All you need is this perfect picture with your post, and you have erotica laid out in your lap.

Violet Duchamps's avatar

Some great titles here!

Rich C's avatar

What a wonderful write up thank you

Ted's avatar

I love the list and have only read Nin so plenty more to explore. I love this line “How longing can both define and destroy a life. It’s an exploration of power, shame, and the hunger to be seen.” captivating & powerful, great post!